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Encourage each other!

It is so important for husbands and wives to encourage each other and to build each other up.

Men, because you’ve been involved with pornography, believe me, your wife will be feeling unloved, betrayed and very hurt. You need to earn her trust back again, prove to her it is all in the past, ask her forgiveness, tell her you love her, that she is the most precious, beautiful woman on earth.  You need to not just tell her once, but daily, start off each day saying “I love you”, help her get back her confidence.  It really hurts to discover your husband has been lusting after other women, even if it’s “just an image”, it’s hard to take in why he would rather watch porn than go to her.  She will be asking herself many questions, wondering was she not good enough, too ugly, too fat, too thin or just plain boring.  Help her feel beautiful once more.

And ladies, if your husband is truly repentant, and has set his mind to give up pornography, you need to let him know how proud you are of him.  He needs your help and support more than ever.  I know you are hurting and I know that what has happened was very unfair, but in order to move on, you need to let it all go and start afresh.  God says to forget the past and allow Him to do a new thing.  So speak words of affirmation to your husband. It is important for him to know you’ve forgiven him, that you love and cherish him.

His and Hers 2

 

I found this picture and although it’s meant to be humorous, I felt a pang of sadness, because with some couples it can be a reality, so don’t allow time to drift past until you find yourself like this old couple!

 

Therefore encourage one another and build up one another, just as you also are doing. 1 Thessalonians 5:11

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“not tonight dear, I’m logging on”

“NOW!” seems to be the cry from a legion of frustrated men at bedtime. The whole idea about porn is sex sex and lots more sex. For the vast majority of men, porn is their first exposure to the ‘birds and the bees’. But, unfortunately, pornography leaves everybody with a completely wrong and distorted view of what God created sex to be through marriage.

Most porn users will deliberately deny their wives tender intimacy and will starve themselves of sex, just because they can’t get to act out the porn-sex they desire. The reason is they are being led by the flesh and not by the spirit. The flesh is selfish, it takes and demands, abuses, defiles and degrades. On the other hand the spirit is gentle, loving, He nurtures and cares. But you don’t need me to tell you all of this, if you would only take time and listen to your wife she will confirm everything.

The ruling spirit behind pornography is driving a wedge between you both and making sure that God isn’t receiving the worship HE deserve’s from when sex is expressed through love. Pornography is constantly squaring up and challenging the Holy Spirit, and it’s using your marriage and sex life to score points.

Let me put it like this, you are being used as a pawn in a chess game. Your porn life is floating you around the board and you can’t make the next move by yourself. So what if your marriage breaks down – there are lots of other pawns to carry on it’s assault against the Holy Spirit.

Gen3x – Fighting Pornography Together

“Hear, O Israel, Ye Approach This Day Unto Battle Against Your Enemies: Let Not Your Hearts Faint, Fear Not, And Do Not Tremble, Neither Be Ye Terrified Because Of Them. ”Deuteronomy 20v3

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L S D

Whenever you think of the term LSD what does it conjure up? Do you think about the 70’s hallucinogenic drugs of that era, flower power and hippies? Or do you recall the horror stories about the way it’s effects have left users with mind distorting nightmares and flash-backs?

Well, in a sense pornography could be compared with LSD, in the way that it’s users can have flash-backs of the images that once got them high, along with a tormented lifestyle of no rest, no peace of mind, no understanding of what they are experiencing. LSD addicts are a bit more fortunate because there are lots of helpful programs and rehab available. But for the porn addict, there has been very little help, that is until now.

Numerous non faith based organisations have sprung up in recent years confirming just how porn effects our brain, our behaviour and our attitudes to life and everyone around us. Check out these guys yourbrainonporn.com.  The amazing thing is, all of this useful scientific information has just confirmed what scripture has been saying for the last 2000 yrs.

Consider Romans 1- 28 KJV. And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient; the ESV calls it a debased mind, the NIV a depraved mind, the Amplified a reprobate mind, the NLT a foolish mind, NLV a sinful mind, Good News a corrupted mind, CEB a defective mind.  So whatever you want to call it scripture has it covered. But of course the ‘L’ ‘S’ ‘D’ we are talking about here isn’t a drug. It’s found in James 1v15: Then when LUST hath conceived, it bringeth forth SIN: and sin when it is finished, bringeth forth DEATH. If Pornography is your choice of drug it can be as harmful as the chemical substances that drug addicts pump into their bodies. The word of God makes it clear that we are a temple of the Holy Spirit, so how can He share His glory with all the filth that has been allowed in?

 

Gen3x – fighting together

“Hear, O Israel, Ye Approach This Day Unto Battle Against Your Enemies: Let Not Your Hearts Faint, Fear Not, And Do Not Tremble, Neither Be Ye Terrified Because Of Them. ”Deuteronomy 20v3

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Smart Phone or Smut Phone – You decide!

 

If the internet and pornography seem like the perfect match then the smart phone must be the illegitimate love child bringing its misery to millions of users.

The sudden influx of affordable smart phones flooding the market has helped to deliver porn directly into the hands of millions any time, any place, any where. Not long ago, it was a novelty just to make and receive a mobile call, today it’s taken for granted to watch movie’s, play games, texting, sexting, email, buy and sell, on-line gambling etc no matter where you are. No other business has benefited more from mobile phones than the smut business.

 www.merinews.com/article/smartphones-have-turned-into-porn-devices-in-kids-pockets/15869371.shtml

Smart phone technology has helped to tighten Satan’s grip (the prince of the power of the “air waves”) over those thrill seekers making sure they get the “hit” any time they want, he is tightening his grip making it harder to find Jesus and to find freedom.

 

Gen3x – Fighting Pornography Together

“Hear, O Israel, Ye Approach This Day Unto Battle Against Your Enemies: Let Not Your Hearts Faint, Fear Not, And Do Not Tremble, Neither Be Ye Terrified Because Of Them. ”Deuteronomy 20v3

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is porn the new dictator

 

 

 

Every dictator throughout history has been remembered for the way they have handed out harsh treatment to those who stood up for justice.  When oppression has become institutionalized like Hitler’s Germany, Stalin’s Russia, Mao’s China, there is no escape, no rest, no choice, no freedom, no peace which is totally the opposite to what Christ has promised to those who remain faithful to Him.   Oppressors raise the bench mark by how everybody should live, what they should watch and read. Take a close look and see just how far your own society has slid in recent years. Even Christian websites have fallen foul to this (new) education, teaching their followers that oral sex and anal penetration is fine, it’s okay, if it feels good and the two of you are happy with it – go for it.

Pornography is cruel to the women who perform and spin its lies, programming what they must look like, dress like, behave and act like right the way through to the wives who are expected to re-enact its sexual rites of Baal Peor worship. They have fallen subject to the lies their husbands have believed or rather been brain-washed into believing what is acceptable in the bedroom.  Pornography has been created for one purpose and one purpose only and that is to mentally stimulate people’s minds, especially men’s minds with thoughts of wickedness, perverted sex, ungodly imagines/ scenarios, that encourage users to defile the marriage-bed, their wives and themselves in front of God.

How grateful are we that we have God’s word to remind us that we are passing through this world and that we should not conform to its habits. The KJV uses the term “a peculiar people” – lets start living that way and stand up for what Christ died for.

Col 2- 8 Beware lest any man spoil you through philosophy and vain deceit, after the tradition of men, after the rudiments of the world, and not after Christ.

 

Gen3x – Fighting Pornography Together

“Hear, O Israel, Ye Approach This Day Unto Battle Against Your Enemies: Let Not Your Hearts Faint, Fear Not, And Do Not Tremble, Neither Be Ye Terrified Because Of Them. ”Deuteronomy 20v3