Spiritually, you are putting your marriage under a huge risk, God has said that the only legal sexual relationship to Him, is a husband and wife having sexual intercourse for the purpose of marital intimacy, mutual physical pleasure,or for creating children. Matt 5:27-28 Jesus said that if you are even looking at someone to lust after them and fantasizing, you are having sex with them (a necessary requirement for masturbation), then you are guilty of real adultery. Anyone who has sex-chatted for a time can tell you that it is more than just sex. There is a spiritual union and intimacy that takes place when doing it, where you mingle your soul with the other person you are having cyber sex with. God said in Mark 10 8 “the two shall become one flesh“, which means there has been an ungodly union to another person who you are not married too so you end up being soul-tied to that person wherever you go, which is why many spouses can spiritually pick up if you have been with someone else. You will end up with “spiritual lipstick” on your collar. God has said very clearly, 1Cor: 6 v 9 that anyone who habitually commits sexual sin will not be allowed into heaven and there is only one other place to go after that, hell. He alone is the only one that created and designed the human body, so He alone has the right to tell us the right and wrong way can use our bodies sexually. If your car breaks down, you consult the manufacturer to fix it, because they have made the car, and know the right way to use and repair the car. God is our Manufacturer.
In the latter stages of an online romance, it is usually either broken off, taken to the next level, or discovered by others, and then that person may end up divorced for adultery. If a woman sees no future in a relationship, or if the affair has lost its romantic spark, she may just break things off and move on to find her needs met by somebody new. Because of the ungodly soul-ties involved it may take several tries to finally end the relationship and it won’t be an easy process. A man will carry on the relationship as long as he gets sexual pleasure out of it. Most online affairs do nothing but dirty a persons soul, make them a nervous wreck afraid of getting caught, and/or cause deep depression, shame, and guilt that they try to relieve with other kinds of pleasure fixes like drugs, smoking, food, or alcohol. Even if you don’t get caught, you will always have to carry that guilt around inside you, which can be a terrible burden and weight to bear. Or they may worry that their ex-lover may come back around and somehow tell on them. It is hard to look into your children’s eyes every day, knowing the risk you are taking with their future and lives.
Gen3x – Fighting Pornography Together
“Hear, O Israel, Ye Approach This Day Unto Battle Against Your Enemies: Let Not Your Hearts Faint, Fear Not, And Do Not Tremble, Neither Be Ye Terrified Because Of Them. “Deuteronomy 20v3