“The anger of man does not bring the righteousness of God into fulfilment,” James 1:20.
When experiencing hurt or pain, anger will begin to swell up inside a person’s heart. Especially after being treated unfairly, for example, if your husband has been viewing pornography or involved in some other kind of sexual sin. Anger can begin to swell up inside us and starts to move the tongue, forming words on the inside which are then spoken out. When the Bible says “be slow to speak” it is first talking about those words which come from angry thoughts and are then spoken out.
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