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April 27, 2013 By girvan

Walking in Goliath’s footsteps

How Big is Porn?

As a child sitting through my Sunday school classes, I was always thrilled to hear the story of King David killing Goliath. Sitting there, my imagination would run riot about how big and fierce this guy was and how he would mock God in front of His presence and get away with it. Well, we all know the story, God raised up David, the most unlikely hero and Goliath was slain by him.  That was that, job done, no more mocking my God – not until a new giant came upon the scene. Pornography, a giant, just like the last one, is mocking and taunting God and keeping His army in fear because they didn’t know how to handle it approach it and more importantly slay it.

Pornography is a multi-billion dollar bully/industry that thrives on working through loop-holes, with no clear definition or governing body to regulate it or more importantly enforce it. Pornography’s strength lies behind the separate and divide rule.  What is tolerated in some regions of the world, like bestiality and violent porn will not be tolerated in others, while the age of purchasing porn in some countries could be as low as 15, in others you could end up facing the death penalty. And the money that is up for grabs greedy politicians will never find enough morality to say no.

The size of the pornography industry is mind boggling.  It is an incredibility lucrative business in sexual exploitation that thrives on never satisfying the consumer.

Steve Orenstein, president of Wicked Pictures, “You have to try really hard to lose money in this business” 

Is it any wonder with the cash that is being spent on it!

  • Every second $3,000 or £2,000 is being spent on porn.
  • Every second 28.258 Internet users are viewing porn.
  • Every second 372 Internet users are typing adult search terms into search engine.
  • Every 39 minutes a new pornographic movie is being created in the United States that adds up to 150 new releases every week. If you watched porn 24 hours a day, it would take several years just to get through the 13,558 hard-core titles released last year as opposed to Hollywood’s mere 400 movies.
  • 2 Million Pornographic websites.
  • 420 million Pornographic pages.
  • 68 million daily porn search engine requests.
  • 5 billion Daily porn emails sent.
  • 7% of internet users who view porn.
  • 5 billion Monthly porn downloads.
  • 72 million monthly visitors to porn websites.
  • Internet sales 4.9 billion dollars.
  • 100,000 websites offer illegal child porn – it has become one of the fastest growing businesses online.
  • 000 daily child pornography requests worth over 3 billion alone in 2005
  • Web pages US 244.661.900, UK is 3rd with 8.506.800.  33% of internet users in the UK search for porn

 

 – It’s all about the money –

  • China spends the most on porn, with a staggering $27.40 billion a year, followed by S. Korea with 25.73 Billion. Japan 19.98 next is US, Australia and then the UK 6th with 1.97 billion spent on the filth.
  • Globally the annual revenue of pornography exceeds 97 billion dollars, that’s bigger than the revenue of the top tech companies Micro Soft, Google, Amazon, eBay, Yahoo, Apple, Netflix, and Earth Link combined.
  • In the US there are more adult outlets for hard core porn than McDonalds restaurants almost on a 3:1 basis.
  • Pornographic products out sell nappies 2-1 and more money is spend in strip clubs than on Broadway shows, Regional Theatres and orchestral performances,
  • And also, more than Americans spend on Baseball, basket ball and football combined.

– Business or pleasure –

Scott Maslow from Pornication, “Rich people go where the money is, so it was only a matter of time until morality got thrown out the window”. So porn has moved into the boardroom as well.

General Motors, the world’s largest company, was at one time earning more money through a company that it owned called TV Direct, selling porn via cable to homes across America, than it was at producing and selling cars.  In fact, they were selling more explicit films than hustler.

Hotel chains have also jumped on the band wagon.  Up to 50% of customers rent porn and nearly 70% of their overall profits from room services come from hiring porn movies. And not forgetting all those broadband providers who are also raking it in.

To be realistic, the pornography industry is probably set to grow even bigger and stronger, by intimidating those who oppose it and lining the pockets of those who smooth the way for it. The only organisation that can stand up to this threat is the body of Christ, it can’t be bought or bribed by it’s millions.  It can’t fall under it’s seducing hypnotic powers of lust and free sex.  The bigger this porn industry grows, the greater the glory will be given to Christ as He pulls it down.  Click here for  So how big is Porn? Prayer

   

 

Gen 3x – Addicted to Porn?

“Hear, O Israel, Ye Approach This Day Unto Battle Against Your Enemies: Let Not Your Hearts Faint, Fear Not, And Do Not Tremble, Neither Be Ye Terrified Because Of Them. “Deuteronomy 20v3

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April 15, 2013 By girvan

What are the shepherds getting up to?

Over half of evangelical Pastors admitted viewing porn last year and 30% of these had visited pornographic sites within the last 30 days. 51% of pastors say pornography is a possible temptation, 37% tell us that it is a current struggle.  So if that’s true 4 out of 10 pastors looked at porn today, 75% of pastors do not make themselves accountable to anyone for their Internet use, 37% of the pastors surveyed confessed to having been involved in inappropriate sexual behaviour with someone in the church. 48% of lay leaders and 23% of Pastors in church have admitted to being unfaithful to their spouses during their marriage.

In his book, “Men’s Secret Wars”, Patrick Means reveals a confidential survey of evangelical pastors and church lay leaders. 64% of these Christian leaders confirm that they are struggling with sexual addiction or sexual compulsion including, but not limited to use of pornography, compulsive masturbation, or other secret sexual activity.

It seems that some Pastors are spending more time hanging around the altar of sexual idolatry than at the feet of Jesus.

That’s what the shepherds are getting up to, now what’s the rest of the flock doing?

Well it varies, anywhere between 50 – 90% + are struggling with porn. 38% of Christian men think that it’s acceptable to view porn. 96% of Christian males under the age of 20 and 61% of Christian married men masturbate regularly.  25% of married Christian men have had an affair since becoming a Christian, and another 15% have had inappropriate physical contact with women other than their wives.  20- 30% of women in the church could also be struggling with pornography as well, probably being introduced by a husband/ boyfriend/abuser or through a chat room. Interesting that women make up about 70% of visits to sexuality explicit chat rooms and 50% to cybersex-sites.

Let me leave you with this final thought “Why do these believers want to go to heaven when they seem to be happy and comfortable hanging out with Pornography, adultery, immorality etc”? whatever final destination you choose pornography won’t be there to welcome you.

 

Gen3x – Fighting Pornography Together

“Hear, O Israel, Ye Approach This Day Unto Battle Against Your Enemies: Let Not Your Hearts Faint, Fear Not, And Do Not Tremble, Neither Be Ye Terrified Because Of Them. “Deuteronomy 20v3

 

 

Filed Under: Get The Facts, Men, Uncategorized Tagged With: altar of sexual idolatry, christian men, evangelical, Pastors, sexual addiction, Sherperds, struggling with porn

April 15, 2013 By girvan

Teen sexting graph

 

Gen3x – Fighting Pornography Together

“Hear, O Israel, Ye Approach This Day Unto Battle Against Your Enemies: Let Not Your Hearts Faint, Fear Not, And Do Not Tremble, Neither Be Ye Terrified Because Of Them. “Deuteronomy 20v3

 

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Filed Under: Beauty For Ashes, Get The Facts, Men, Uncategorized, Women Tagged With: bestfriend, boyfroend, girlfriend, nude, photos, Sexting, teens

April 15, 2013 By girvan

No rings no strings, right?

Cybersex

Cybersex

Online affairs, cyber-sex, sexting and sex-chat now seems to be the new way of hooking up for safe sex without any commitment or risk – but is it?  If you randomly ask anyone “What is unsafe sex” the reply will be “sex without a condom” that is the least of it. There are always consequences for our actions and sin always has a price to pay.

– Are you lonely tonight –

For those who are unfamiliar with this behaviour, I will briefly explain it to you. An online affair is an online (Internet) romantic and sexual relationship, sometimes one of brief duration, between two people who are not married to each other. You might think that this sounds harmless and boring because you aren’t really with the person, but these relationships touch spiritual, deep emotional, sexual needs and desires. They can grow into a more permanent relationship where you meet the person in the flesh, have sex, and start a relationship that can lead to marriage or children. Online sex-chat and affairs start small, but can quickly become big. It may seem low risk, because they cannot touch you, or know your name unless you want them to. Ideally, you should just be able to turn off the power to your computer, and just walk away, but online affairs and sex-chat have many unseen drawbacks and risks that in the end, can cost you and the person you are having the affair with, everything you love and value.

Although I do not want to educate people on how to sin, I do want people to understand this behaviour so that they can identify and avoid it. Sex-chat happens when two people get online and either chat on their messenger (Yahoo, AOL, MSN, or whatever you use), or they chat in public chat rooms and go into a private conversation. There are also dedicated free porn sites that offer real-time video sex chat. When these people chat, they type in a romantic/sexual dialogue that is meant to stimulate and arouse each other sexually and emotionally, and they usually masturbate while doing it. I know your first question is; “how can they do all that with two hands?” Well, I guess you just have to be motivated and skilled enough, and that’s as far as I will go with that. Some people also have web cams, which allow them to visually interact, as well as using their microphone rather than using a keyboard to communicate. When they are done, they may move on to someone else, or become more attached to each other emotionally and begin a deeper online relationship.

-Not tonight Dear I’m loggin On –

Some people may take their relationship to the next level and meet, or some people actually leave their spouse and kids for their new online romance. The feelings of lust and infatuation can be very strong, but also very misleading and deceiving. You might think this is a horrible, selfish, and disgusting way for a responsible mother or father to act, but it is no different than throwing your life away for drugs or alcohol. They may be trying to relieve old unhealed emotional pain with sensual and emotional pleasure. We must be careful to always try to be objective about someone else’s problems, especially if you think you are beyond committing them.  Cybersex is like ice cream, it may come in many flavours, but it’s still all just ice cream (and poisonous at that). Just because you like chocolate, and someone else likes vanilla, doesn’t mean that your ice cream is any better or worse than somebody else’s. The root problem and answer are the same for all who are trapped in sin.

Often after a climax during sex-chat, the lust subsides, and the guilt kicks in. You swear you will never do “that” again, and resolve to do what’s right from now on. The problem is, sin doesn’t let you off the hook that easy. That romance fix, or sexual fix you got today, will be crying out for even more gratification tomorrow. Plus, there is the physical need to have sex that will come back and push you for more gratification. What you used to think you controlled, now controls you. Some people throw their computers away, but loneliness and lust call them back again. Many people eventually get caught by their spouse, kids, boss, or someone else, and in one second everyone’s trust in you, and your reputation, can take a huge nosedive. If it is your spouse that catches you, you may be packing a suitcase, if it’s a boss, you may be cleaning out your desk. Does this sound far-fetched to you? Well, trust me, it’s not. It is a very serious problem in our culture and society today. Many marriages have been ruined by online affairs and sex-chat.

Are you playing spiritual roulette? click here to find out

 

– filling the void –

Most men who are heavily into pornography lose interest in natural sex. Many women who were not affirmed and valued properly by their fathers will never feel validated as an adult woman, and will unconsciously and vicariously try to meet that unmet need through an affair(s). Online affairs, and sex-chat are nothing more than life-cheating adultery. God made good rules for us to live by, and we will be at our happiest, healthiest, and most satisfied, when we follow them. God also wants to heal your heart at the root level, from all the old unhealed emotional pain that you are trying to manage and relieve through sexual pleasure  (affairs, sex chat, masturbation). If you are having an online affair or sex-chatting  problem right now, then there is a way out of this dark hole you are trapped in my friend. If you are truly willing to let go of this addiction, God will do everything to help you. There are many people and couples, who have successfully worked through this, but you must be willing to surrender this problem to The Lordship of Jesus Christ completely.  click here  to go to Cybersex prayer.

It’s not only the adults who are involved in sexting, our kids don’t use their mobiles like we do. Check out this Teen sexting graph to see what they are up to.

 

Gen3x – Fighting Pornography

“Hear, O Israel, Ye Approach This Day Unto Battle Against Your Enemies: Let Not Your Hearts Faint, Fear Not, And Do Not Tremble, Neither Be Ye Terrified Because Of Them. “Deuteronomy 20v3

 

 

 

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April 15, 2013 By girvan

Cybersex Prayer

 

Dear God, I am so sorry for committing spiritual adultery and sexual immorality against You, my spouse, and my body. I ask that You would forgive me for cheating with the sexual rules you have set up for us to live by. God, I ask that You would help me to get out of this nightmare, right now, today. I now repent of all forms of adultery, sexual immorality, sexual perversion, masturbation, lustful fantasizing, pornography, and especially from hurting You and those I love. As you forgave King David for his adultery, and the woman caught in adultery that you saved from stoning, I ask for that same mercy right now. Help me to forgive myself also in this healing process. Holy Spirit heal the pain and fill the emptiness that drives me to do what I do. Guide my paths and my decisions, show me what to do next as I turn away from my ungodly lifestyle. I commit all of my heart and life to you this day. In Jesus name I pray, Amen

 

Gen3x – Fighting Pornography Together

“Hear, O Israel, Ye Approach This Day Unto Battle Against Your Enemies: Let Not Your Hearts Faint, Fear Not, And Do Not Tremble, Neither Be Ye Terrified Because Of Them. “Deuteronomy 20v3

 

 

Filed Under: Men, Prayer, Uncategorized Tagged With: forgive me for cheating, get me out of this nightmare, help me to forgive, In Jesus name, King David, saved from stoning, woman caught in adultery

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